Have you ever felt like something’s missing? Like, no matter what you do, there’s this emptiness that just doesn’t go away? Maybe you feel lost, restless, or just… off. Don’t worry, you’re not alone! We all go through this. And sometimes, it’s just a gentle reminder from Allah (SWT) to come closer to Him. After all, the peace we crave is only found in the remembrance of Allah. As the Quran says, “Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest.” (Surah Ar-Ra’d, 13:28).
So, how do you know if it’s time to reconnect with your Creator? Here are 5 signs you definitely shouldn’t ignore:
1. You Feel Overwhelmed By Stress and Anxiety
Life can be tough. School, relationships, social media pressure, it’s a lot to handle! But if you’re constantly feeling anxious and stressed, it’s a sign that your heart needs peace. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said, “Remember Allah during times of ease, and He will remember you during times of difficulty.” (Tirmidhi).
What To Do:
- Make Dua sincerely, pouring your heart out to Allah. He’s listening. Always.
- Pray your Salah on time. It’s your secret power move against stress!
- Try saying “Hasbiyallahu la ilaha illa Huwa” (Surah At-Tawbah, 9:129) when you feel overwhelmed.
2. You’re Constantly Comparing Yourself to Others
Scrolling through Instagram and feeling like everyone’s life is better than yours? It’s a dangerous trap. When you lose sight of Allah’s blessings upon you, it’s easy to feel ungrateful and dissatisfied.
The Prophet (PBUH) advised, “Look at those who are lower than you and do not look at those who are higher than you, for this is more likely to prevent you from belittling the blessings of Allah.” (Muslim).
What To Do:
- Make Shukr (gratitude) a daily habit. Write down three things you’re grateful for every day.
- Limit social media and focus on bettering your inner self.
- Remember: The only comparison you should make is with your past self. Are you closer to Allah than you were yesterday?
3. Your Salah Feels Like a Chore
Does praying feel like something you just want to “get over with”? That’s a major red flag! Salah is supposed to be your moment of peace and connection with Allah. When it feels like a burden, it’s time to check your heart.
The Prophet (PBUH) said, “The closest that a servant comes to his Lord is when he is prostrating, so make plenty of supplication.” (Muslim).
What To Do:
- Learn the meanings of the prayers to make them more meaningful.
- Make sincere Duas in Sujood. That’s your most special moment.
- Try praying in a quiet place with full concentration. Disconnect to reconnect.
4. You Feel Spiritually Lost or Numb
When was the last time you cried while making Dua? When was the last time your heart felt truly connected to Allah? If you can’t remember, then it’s time to rekindle that flame of Imaan.
The Prophet (PBUH) said, “Faith wears out in the heart of anyone of you just as clothes wear out, so ask Allah to renew the faith in your hearts.” (Hakim).
What To Do:
- Read or listen to the Quran with meaning and reflect on it.
- Surround yourself with good, positive, and practicing friends.
- Make a habit of doing Istighfar (seeking forgiveness). It’s a heart cleanser.
5. You’re Neglecting Your Relationship With The Quran
Have you left the Quran on your bookshelf, gathering dust? The Quran is Allah’s letter to us, a guidance meant to heal our hearts and souls.
Allah (SWT) says, “And We send down of the Qur’an that which is healing and mercy for the believers…” (Surah Al-Isra, 17:82).
What To Do:
- Start with small, consistent steps. Even just 5 minutes a day is a great start.
- Reflect on the meanings and how they apply to your life.
- Memorize and implement small portions. Make it part of your daily routine.
Ready To Strengthen Your Connection With Allah?
The truth is, Allah (SWT) never leaves us. He’s always there, waiting for us to call upon Him. So, why wait? Take that first step toward Him today. And guess what? He promises to come running to you!
“Whoever comes to Me walking, I go to him running.” (Hadith Qudsi, Bukhari).
What steps will you take today to reconnect with Allah? Share your thoughts in the comments below. And don’t forget to share this post with your sisters who might need it!
May Allah (SWT) guide us all and strengthen our Imaan. Ameen.